Reaction of a Father for his Son from the blog

It's a true story, one of my respected blog reader who's a father asked me "Teach this to my son how to get success in life. He is not taking interest in his studies."

This seems to be a very common problem in current era. But, before getting to the solution we shall first know few important points about the psychology, as this is the initial cause of the problem.
Lewis Yablonsky, Ph D and professor emeritus of sociology at California State University Northridge says as painful as it is for both parties, this adolescent mutiny is an important part of a boy's development. Beginning in their early teens, boys begin to differentiate themselves from their fathers, often by openly rebelling against the home rule.

Some other forces conspiring against father-son bonding are cultural. Work frequently pulls men away from their families, which then adds divorce or separation, or a substitute of this would be a sudden change in the life style of father which directly or indirectly affects the son as he observes his father very closely and the cumulative effects of this various factors can leave a lingering distance between father and son.

Now, my thoughts which I shared with my respective reader, which were more for the parent then pointing out to the son.

• The very first destructive and time consuming part of his life is wrong use of technology which is gaming. This gaming protection stems from the fact that in order for a young man to take a break as he grows older, he needs to release a chemical called the “neurotransmitter dopamine” by playing video games. However, playing video games causes the release of many chemicals that are harmful to your brain. So the conclusion from this question is, give him a mobile phone regularly, but the consequences will be harmful to his brain. This time his father will give him 100% attention and change the rules of the game. In fact, a father should be his son's best friend because his increasing love for his son will play a big role in his change.
• Control your son's diet, the amount of junk food he eats will make him happy (this is another response of the brain). Give him 50% raw or cooked vegetables, this will make him mentally healthy.

Discipline should be as follows: 

• The child should wake up at 5:30 in the morning and go to bed at 10:30 in the evening, plus an hour of exercise or outdoor activities, the presence of the father is required. support your son.
• Introduce him to a group where you think he will thrive rather than being part of his current group, but remember: "A friend in need is a friend".
• Reading should be a hobby because reading helps children's brains work better. But this requires parents to pay attention to what their church reads and understands. "Mandukya Upnishad" in 10th class, "Knowledge of Truth - Mahatma Gandhi" in 11th class and general books like "Rich Dad Poor Dad", "Power of Subconscious Mind", "Karma Yoga-" Swami "Vivekananda" should be well understood. Reached level 12.

We never grow until we accept our Father's plan. We want our father to bless us too and guide us into adulthood